What does a Goddess really want

There have been, over recent weeks, quite a few blog posts around the subject that all women (not just some, or a few but all!) are superior to me. But fortunately, there are some more sensible Goddesses out there who question this rationale and indeed look to debunk it all together.

What seems, to me, to be the issue is that so many men are trying to enter into the BDSM world without ever questioning why or what they want from it. It is to easy for most men to just say to a female, Mistress or Goddess or whatever superior form of address She wishes to take, “i will do anything for You Mistress” without thinking about it first and what that sounds like to the other party.

For me, if were to hear that, and now I am putting myself in the shoes, metaphorically, of the Female Dominant, it would sound as if I have just tried to say what you want to hear or what I think you want to hear. Indeed, I would hear someone who had put no thought into the statement at all. They had not tried to find out about me and they had no ability to express themselves in a way that was meaningful to a potential relationship.

No, back in my sub shoes, I will admit that when I was younger and not a middle aged submissive as I am now, it did say it. But I was punished for doing so and punished in the worse way by being ignored and treated as if I did not exist. I had to understand what use I was to the Mistress, how I could serve Her and please Her in order for me to answer the question from Her, simply “what can you do for me”.

Of course, once you are able to answer this many Female Dominants are disarmed as it shows initiative on the part of the sub. It also shows that you care and are able to be more than a piece of meat. It shows more than anything you respect the Female and are capable of submitting properly.

 

Here endeth the lesson :)