I was asked recently to write about a 1000 words on what I thought described the perfect Goddess (Goddess worship being a very relevant topic in my life at the moment). This is what I came up with
A Goddess has very special attributes. A Goddess is there to be worshipped, venerated and adored. Her orders and wishes are to be obeyed without question, without hesitation and if you adore a Goddess it becomes you place to satisfy the desires of the Goddess and that is all the matters in your life.
Are there typical physical attributes for a Goddess? Well, the quick answer is yes! But of course that is too simple. In reality each submissive has in his mind an image of a Goddess. For me, She would have to be tall. 5’8 or above I am guessing, as when She wears shoes, which of course would always have at least a 5” heel, She be an imposing tall figure, above my 5’10. She would be well proportioned. Her figure would stop traffic, the classic hour glass. She would always dress in such a way that women are envious and men are lustful. She epitomises sex and of course uses this to control men to her advantage. But of course, those are just physical attributes. A Goddess is aware of Her divinity and has no need to demand worship as it is freely given by those who desire to serve. When near Her, you can feel and sense the power and know that this is someone very special.
There is of course the subject of Goddess Worship and what this entails and encompasses. Much of this, the need to worship the Goddess, the desire to submit and feel you are at Her mercy comes from the sense of being less than worthy, but not from having no sense of worth. A Goddess, in my mind, would never want a worthless subject.
Worship has at least two meanings . Back in ye olden days men loved their ‘maiden faire’ and worshipped her for that, but for me there’s another kind and that is to surrender to Her as a divinity. And it is of course the latter that concerns us here. There are so many different ways to "worship" a Goddess. Some are traditional ways that many slaves are into, including me. The first and most obvious is worshipping someone as a deity, or at least a representative of a deity. In these scenes, the slave is a supplicant who prays to the Goddess asking for Her blessing and offer sacrifices and offerings to Her (often financial) including their pain and suffering.
Many slaves consider "worship" to signify sexual worship. However worship could well be interchanged with the term service and may well be somewhat interchangeable to many in the BDSM context, at least in how they play out, but I think the attitude of the slave is different when looking at service or worship. Service has the connotation of performing whatever the Goddess commands, whereas worship has more aspects of actively giving something to one who is above human demands.
So what do I mean by sexual worship? It really can be anything agreed upon by Goddess and slave, but for most people, the image that stands out is that of oral service, with no thought or expectation of release for the slave himself. The pleasure of the slave is in the giving and nothing is needed from the slave over and above that. There is something inherent in it that conjures up images of obeisance and even spirituality when the act is purely one of giving.
Some slaves (and again I count myself as amongst these) are also very much into strap-on "worship," which again usually involves oral service of the dildo. This is much more than just a simple blow job of an inanimate dildo; the attitude of the slave is all-important. They must approach the strap-on with proper respect and awe and show respect and obedience to it at all times, along with the requisite oral servicing.
The oral theme is not the only one in sexual worship. Some Goddesses consider actual intercourse to be a form of worship, if done in the proper submissive way. I don't hold with this approach and have never considered this an act of worship and to be fair, never will.
Besides straight-out sexual worship, there is a great deal of potential for sensual worship. This may be worshipful caressing, massaging, kissing, etc. over the entire body of the object of worship. This form of worship can be quite powerful, as it has connections with the longstanding tradition of kissing icons, relics and other religious objects.
The Goddess can also be "worshipped" in very traditional ways with flowers, being taken out to dinner, receiving presents, and so on. In many cases, these chivalrous actions might seem almost offensive, hearkening back to an older and less gender-equal time, but surely if the slave is performing them humbly and selflessly they do become a form of worship instead of a chauvinist method of courting.
Finally there is fetish worship where not only You, but the items You might wear become a potential object for worship. We have all come across "foot worship” and it is commonly known, I’m sure. But in many cases it is not so much the foot, as the shoe or boot that is being worshipped. Like many slaves I love to worship high heels, boots and other things. Again, in these cases, the "worshipping" usually involves kissing, licking, smelling, and generally showing an attitude of awe towards these items. It is the element of contact with the Goddess that becomes important. And an ideal Goddess will understand this and use it as a reward when needed. Of course, to have this refused or withheld is often an effective form of punishment.
There is so much I would want Goddess to be apart from all the above! She needs to firm but kind, compassionate but strict, know when to punish and when to reward. She must want to be worshipped but also ensure that she is worshipped in the way that is acceptable to Her. But of course, there is another side that is way from the physical and that is handing control over to the Goddess and that control may take the form of financial, sexual or whatever is acceptable.
I try very hard to have no pre-conceived idea of what a Goddess is and is not and it of course the Goddess Herself who creates Her own Goddess persona. She has got to have the desire and want to be worshipped and will accept the worship as it is intend, as an act of adoration and devotion.
So, what is a perfect Goddess? I don’t know but I do know that to me, each Goddess is perfect.
