You are never to old to do something new!

Today was a great day. It was great for many reasons which included seeing friends in the fetish scene, filming for a great fetish website and of course trying something new! There is a maxim about old dogs and new tricks which quite frankly is rubbish as was proven today, so let me try to paint the scene.

A stunning fetish Mistress, Liza, me and her slave all in a Jacuzzi. Her slave and I are both wearing gasmasks and I am also dressed in a latex body suit. My gas mask, a Russian one also has a breathing tube extension and it is this that is used to great effect by Liza to create suction points. The effects of the warm water, the latex, the mask and of course the stunning Fetish Liza all make a very very arousing session! I am hoping to get some pictures and I will, as soon as I get them, post them. It was a first for me, to play in a Jacuzzi whilst dressed in latex and masked. It was one that I want to repeat I know that!

All in all, a great day and thank-you to all concerned.

At last!

Well, nothing of real note but at last, after many years of not really having the desire to change it or in reality the time, I have managed to give my own website an update and a fresh new look.

Out go the oh so '90's frames and in come nice new menus with a consistent look and feel across the site.

What is the URL I hear you cry...  is where you will find it. Nothing grand, just some links and stuff to people I know, places I go and a few resources.

More later as much to write about - me getting old, clubs, parties and of course the ever ongoing filming.

So much going on

Much has been going on since I last posted and I am going to try to bring it all up to date very soon but.. in brief -

Pedestal on a Friday - Not good and did not enjoy it.

The English Mansion - Filmed with those fantastic people and got taken on a new journey

Fetish Liza - Had the true pleasure of filming with Liza and Rebekka Raynor and had a blast

Mistress - Had some lovely time with Her at LFF and some Roller Derby (my new passion)

Full updates soon

Pedestal.. on a Friday! Whatever next.

So, Pedestal has moved to a Friday. It’s just a day you may think but it will, I suspect, change the dynamic of the club (OK, this was actually suggested by someone I respect huge amounts).

Why You ask (or at leas I hope you are) will the dynamic be changed? Well, Pedestal has, for a long time now, been on a Thursday night even though, many years ago, it was actually on a Saturday. And, being on a Friday it means that people, generally, do not have to go to work the next day. The nature of the person who goes will change. Many, I am sure, of those who go to Pedestal do so because they are staying in London, on business etc. It gives them the chance to experience a very friendly Femme Domme club and still go to work the next day. By moving it to a Friday, You lose that. You suddenly become more viable for a lot of the regular London clubbers. You also start to conflict with other clubs that may also run on a Friday and of course, those Saturday clubs. Will you want to go to a club Friday and Saturday (of course you all cry out).

All that said, I am of course going to go. I shall once again be with Mistress and that in itself is a massive treat as we have not been out together for a long time. It is almost like going to Smack, back in the day. Friday nights were the best night and the after parties into the hours of Saturday morning just topped it off.

I’ll let you know how it goes.

Pay and Play – the right way and the wrong way

In the last month, I have been to a couple of what are usually described at “Pay’n’Play” parties. It was interesting to see how different they were and how one worked brilliantly and one was a major let-down.

With the most recent party, it was a warm, friendly and a lot of fun. I knew some of the people there but not well having seen them at clubs etc or in one case done some filming. I did however know of the Mistresses and I have to confess that She was the main reason I went a for a long time I had wanted to play with Her. The party had been themed as "Tea and Strap-on” so that was right up my street, as they say. The other was a more random affair and was organised by a Mistress I know very well having been to many of her parties when she held them in London. This party in contrast was shambolic and in part that was down to the premises but mostly down to one of the other Mistresses. Here’s why.

In my experience, the best parties are not organised in respect of what happens during the party. They just have a flow about them and people pair off to play when it suits them or when invited. Party 2 failed on that account in so many ways. The “subs” were marched from room to room for the next “game” where we took it in turns to participate. The ratio was OK – 2:1 so that is never a bad thing but clearly some of the guys were not used to parties and found it somewhat intimidating I suspect. Whilst I am somewhat of an exhibitionist (understatement) clearly not all are like that and the thought of participating in games that may involve touching another man were abhorrent. But the real downer, the killer was a Mistress who was having her first party. I can only really describe her as a shouty Mistress and seemed to be in the early stages of Dominatrix Toxaemia and believed the best results were achieved by shouting at all and sundry no matter what. It had the effect of killing what little mood there was and made for a not successful night.

The other party, held very recently was, on the other hand a real success. The guys were all there to have fun and along with the 3 Mistresses, there were a number of couples who were in a D/s relationship at the party. No-one really had to shout and with only a couple of rooms to play in, there was always something going on where you were either participating or could watch if you so desired. For me, the 2nd party worked because it was so much more relaxed. It was for me a party where I got to finally give myself over to someone I long admired who ended up giving me an anal session I will remember for a long time! More of that at a later date I suspect.

Caning it.

I make no secret of the fact that I hate the cane. It is a deep rooted hatred, to the point I am prepared to walk away if told I am going to get it. It’s the physics involved in the blow. All that pressure in one small line across the arse cheeks is not for me I’m afraid. Now, a good hard flogging across the back and shoulders, or the sting of a single tail on the back – well that just sends me to a very happy place and one I love going to.

So, why do I mention this. Well I have also never made any secret that I have no issue with drugs and playing when under the influence creates a different dynamic to when fully sober and aware and here comes the point of this. The other night, when with some friends we decided to have bit of a play. Three people, one submissive (me) and two Dommes makes for a happy man, especially when one of the party is a very sexy TS.

We had already taken some chemicals, as that is the way we are. One thing lead to another and I found myself bound over a stool unable to move. I could hear much discussion and giggling when they both came into view and a cane in hand. They know my hatred and have always steered clear of it in the past. But now, if I wanted what I really wanted, I would have to take 18 strikes. No complaining, no swearing, just acceptance. Here’s the rub though. Being slightly high, as they say, I was happy to do pretty much anything to get what I wanted so said yes, bring it on.

Now, I am not going to say I enjoyed it but I was in a very different place under chemical influence than I would normally be with the result that I took 18 fairly hard strikes and duly got my reward! But did I enjoy it.. no. Not a single blow. I counted each one down knowing it was one less to to and now, as a result, have a striped arse that will take a week to heal.

Is there a moral here. Not really, but drugs do make you do the most stupid things at times and I am always lead by my cock and not my brain! At the end of the day, I had fun, got fucked and played with two great friends. What more can I ask for.

Behave

I am mildly excited! For the first time in ages i am going to Pedestal. It has been almost 9 months since I last went so this will be something I am really looking forward to. But the thing that will make it strange is that I am going alone without Her. That is something new. We spoke last week, before She went away and I asked if I could go and was told I can but have to behave. That's a hard word, behave. I will be there, in a room full of Dominant females, many of whom I know and I have to behave! I am sure I will, well mostly.

So, Pedestal next week and I will write more after that, after I have behaved.